The idea of marriage is so romantic and exciting that most couples forget the reality of what lies ahead of them. The wonderful proposal, the engagement party, the dream wedding and a destination honeymoon - all of these exalt the happy couple and they look forward to their 'Happily ever after'. But when the real life hits them, they realize that married life is not a bed of roses. Under such circumstances, it is only normal that the relationship slowly loses its luster. A couple needs to realize that it is these little troubles, burdens, chores and responsibilities that complete life.

# Loading Him With Work

It is understandable that you are just as tired and frustrated with the chores and the responsibilities of life. You may have to deal with kids, the household responsibilities and may also have stress at work. But you don't have to load these up on your husband as soon as he reaches home.

# Expect Him To Make Plans

It feels amazing when your husband does all the planning for the time when you're away. But you should remember that your husband deserves all the pampering too. So, next time, you do the planning and surprise him.

# Keep The Conversation Limited

Kids and the other responsibilities of a married life are very important and it is just as important that husband and wife talk about it. But when it is all you can talk about, your husband may slowly become wary of it.

# You Need Help

As the woman of the house, you may be comfortable making the decisions around the home. Your man too may let you do it out of respect.

# His Feelings

Men are seen as strong and the ones that lend a shoulder to the woman to lay her head on. When emotionally drained, your husband will hold you and console you. You can share things that are sensitive with him and have emotional support in return.

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